Expansion
Expansion! Ideas on this topic have been swirling in me continuously remind me that its time for me to release it. As an observer of life within myself and others concept and ideas about life seem to come to me like a river or a light bulb switching on. As a person, who is not formally educated in the area of human behaviour my mind and my soul seems to be drawn to this area.
Life is like an endless journey of doors opening up to you if you see its true purpose and potential. We all been through something in life, some are more heavy-hearted than others. I myself have been through my share of the world challenges and heartache. As a sensitive person, it seems to be a little harder on me as I absorb it into me really carry this weight and burden. Well, back then more than now. Some still reside in me now.
But in reviewing my life and all the major events that happen to me. I see growth and improvement with me that make me think. I am dammed lucky that I been through all that pain or heartache. Because from raising above those moments in life, I have heightened my self, open more doors to my mind and life.
Yes, love has left me, but it teaches me to love others and myself. It allows me to be a better lover and break my pattern. Once I work out what I did wrong I move to make it better. We are all growing and learning is our own way. we define what is really is that we want in life, in this case, a partner. Some lesson seems smaller than others, but they are equally important in our development and creation of ourselves.
Growing up in an unconventional family make me different. I never thought I fit in anywhere, even today I am different from the norm. But through the struggle of my past, we triumph today. The fear of difference is no longer an issue but celebrated.
I see that tragedy or what people call misfortune as an expansion event. With loss one coming out of our life, we truly see the value to life and the value of an individual. We can say we are sorry but to truly feel it and live it loss give that to you. So I don’t see events of pain as a bad thing anymore. It is an opportunity for us to expand be better, to grow as a person, be compassionate towards those who have suffered and be a guide for those who have yet to come through this path.
The destruction of one self-image or one persona is liberating. As an Asian who brought up with face or image of oneself as important. The destruction of oneself was disappointing to those who love you. What others see you and what you think others see you can be tiring to live up to. Once this image is destroyed and your attachment shock has resolved itself. The new you can be born. There is no or less expectation to bind you down, because to you that image you once had was gone and you are free to create whatever you want. For me, I see that it an opportunity to recreate an image closer to what you imagine yourself to me. I started to express myself through my clothes and expand me and acted more free to become the current me. My judgement of other simmer down. I understand now. A butterfly is created in me. Beautiful with all its glory. Woww… it so amazing when you think about all your tragedy that way. There is beauty in all things even if it may seem ugly at first. Life is like this evolution of growth, with every stumble there is expansion and growth. Reaching into you to pull out another beautiful you. You are sheading your skin or for me, it is like a flower opening up to reveal your inner beauty, blossoming endlessly as you go through life.
We are beautiful if only we see this beautiful rose in us, forever blossoming. Don’t take tragedy as your downfall because it is not. It is your growth and expansion. It is you concurring yourself, taking charge and leading life to your fullest. A broken man is a person who closes doors into himself. Don’t do that to yourself, you are too precious and beautiful to do that to the only person that matter and that is you. Open doors, move forward, move towards lights or be that light for yourself. You can not survive if you do not grow and expand so allow your soul and your body to turn unfortunate events to fortunate events. Allow yourself to fall and expand. You own this to yourself. Nothing that has ever happen that has not been experienced by this earth or universe. Everything moves on and forwards and so must you. Don’t kill your spirit by not allowing yourself to fall experience and grow. Know that every event embedded is for your expansion, so expand with the universe this world we live in.
I am not saying you can not be sad or angry or all the emotion that one goes through in a situation. Go through it but know what this event is for four growth and expansion. Know that you need this to define yourself and be a better you. So be happy again. Nothing is really bad if you can only see the bigger picture of your life. You have come this far be happy and grateful life has given you so much lesson learn it and move on to the next level.
Feel free to let us know your lesson or expansion…
