Judgement an automatic path
We live in a world where we a quick to judge people and label people for anything and everything. Don’t you hate being judged? especially if they are wrong.
Instinct is what we have that can save us in many situations. It a form of judgement that we make about a situation. Here we are not talking about this kind of situation.
Every one of us has different taste and different opinion about things. Yes, there is something that we agree on but there are things we don’t agree on as well. Our mind is wired so differently from other people that it makes us unique and one of a kind, just like our fingerprint.
Hence, if others don’t do things the way we think is right we make a judgement or even the opposite we make a judgement. This is part of our nature or what has been pass on to us as a skill or practice. I love clothes and dressing up. I love to look my best, I think that you care for yourself enough to look after you. It is not for anyone but for me if others enjoy it. It is a bonus, but the looks I get some time at work or on the street is a mix of positive and negative (mostly positive). It is kind of strange and it made me think. All these people don’t know me, don’t know my motivation, background or even how I was raised and taught; live and think the way I think know me yet judgement is so quick and fast.
I bear this trait too… But it made me think we are like a rose there are multiple layers that are yet to be seen. What you see is one petal of me, those stranger, others like my friends and family see a few more petal. We are not fixed, like a rose we grow and blossom spreading our wings, don’t put us in a box and fixed us, see that we have depth and layer upon layer of growth and beauty to show.
Yes, see the now, but keep an open heart for the potential in us. Know that this mistake or this moment is not the end of us, the whole or fixed us. This is the beginning of me or you to blossom and beautify ourselves. Nothing is really a mistake but a lesson, some are faster to learn, others take their time.
Judgement sound so negative and fixed. So tomorrow I will see this world a new. See the mistake or the one view as not complete, it is only the surface of you, knowing that a better you are still to come. If I have the privilege to see you again I hope to see and explore more of your beauty and growth, for nothing is truly ugly if you step back and look for its beauty. You will find something.
For with love the world is wonderful like heaven without love the world is hell. Where do you want to be?
